Honest North Goa vs South Goa verdict for women who just want to actually relax

I've read conflicting opinions and want real answers. One person on a forum I found checked out of Baga after one night. Another person in their 70s said they love North Goa for the food and buzz. I'm 54, solo, not interested in clubs or chaos, but I don't want to be bored either. Who has actually stayed in both and can tell me which one genuinely suited them as a solo woman?